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Although these two are written and pronounced completely differently, "me" and "I" are often used interchangeably or used in the wrong context.

Let's uncover the main difference between them and the correct ways to use these words!

Me vs. I

The main difference between "me" and "I" is very easy to remember, as it simply refers to the pronoun type. More exactly, "I" is always used as a subject, while "me" is used as an object. This small and simple difference actually dictates in which situations you should use each. Let's take a closer look at these situations!

When do we use "I"?

As "I" represents a subject, it is therefore used to indicate the person who performs an action, the subject of a sentence or phrase:

Example 1: I went to the theatre with Chuck.

Example 2: Chuck and I went to the theatre.

In both cases, the word "I" is referring to the person who performed the action, who went to a certain place and therefore is the subject of the message.

When do we use "me"?

"Me" is used as the direct or indirect object in a sentence and is always used to express the object of the message. A good trick to remember whether you should use "me" in a phrase would be to ask the question "to whom?", or "for who"? If "me" answers any of these questions, then it is certainly an object and should be used in the sentence.

Example 1: Casey gave Sarah and me tickets to his show. - Here, "me" refers to the person who received something. The question you might ask is "Whom has Casey given his tickets to?". The answer would not be: Casey gave I a ticket.

Example 2: This gift is for me. - answering the question "for who?", "me" is used correctly in this context as it expresses the object who receives something.

Example 3: She told me to go away. - Again, answering the question "Whom?", the object "me" supports the action of the verb.

Conclusion

If you are able to make the distinction between the subject and the object of a sentence, you should be equipped to understand whether you should use "I" or "me". Remember the examples discussed above and you won't be confused anymore.

Me vs. I

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  • stephenw.52630
    This is a great topic, by the way. Something I hear with great regularity is when a person is the object of a verb or preposition along with another individual and uses "I" when the correct word is "me." For example: "My daughter bought tickets to the theater for my wife and I." Or "Our neighbors came to the movies with my wife and I." No one would ever say "the tickets are for I" or "Do you want to come with I to the movies?" Somehow, somewhere a lot of people in our society heard "me" as being wrong and are now correcting a mistake that doesn't exist. Like many grammar related issues, this one gets on my nerves! Or maybe I should say "gets on I's nerves," LOL. 
    LikeReplyReport 12 months ago
  • BeKindToOthers
    Please reconsider example one: "Casey gave Sarah and me his guns." Other people should be referenced before oneself. Thank you.
    LikeReplyReport 15 months ago
    • Soulwriter
      This is correct. I've also replaced the common noun to 'ticket' - much friendlier than guns ;) Thanks for spotting this!
      LikeReplyReport 15 months ago
  • rhoneyman
    Should be me vs should be I. Former sounds right; latter not so much. Take it out of the passive voice and it's clearly, I should.
    LikeReplyReport 110 months ago
  • David Bikker
    Except that I always hear "Is it him or me?" and not "Is it he or I?".
    LikeReplyReport1 year ago
    • Max Klein
      That's why grammar should always be descriptive, not prescriptive... If you hold on to a principle established by a set rule and don't use the language like the people around you use it, you'll eventually end up being misunderstood... or not understood at all.... Of hem that written ous tofore the bokes duelle, and we therfore ben tawht of that was write tho 
      LikeReplyReport 11 year ago
    • Jorge Jimenez
      Max Klein Is "it"(object) him or me?
      LikeReplyReport 11 year ago
    • stephenw.52630
      Mmm, sometimes. I would agree that being hard and fast about the rules can get you in trouble, but the counterargument is that going along with the crowd when the crowd is wrong, is also a bad idea.
      LikeReplyReport2 months ago
  • Megan Zaila Wasiak
    Should It be here Healthy Body and Me or Healthy Body and I
    LikeReplyReport 11 year ago
    • Max Klein
      Since the question whether it's "me" ord "I" is determined by syntax, it doesn't make any sense to answer this question as long as your example lacks a complete syntax... it'd be: Healthy Body and I went out to the park. (subject case) but: The people in the park saw Healthy Body and me hand out free yogurt samples in the park. (object case) The word "and" doesn't change a thing... you can have 100 ands - and it'd still require noun phrases in the respective case... e.g. The people in the park saw me and her and him and your moma and a flying tortellini monster and Herb McBurb and some pony smugglers dancing.... 
      LikeReplyReport 11 year ago
  • Max Klein
    In contemporary English, "me" is also used with copula verbs. People who say "Hey, It is I" on the phone instead of "Hey it's me" are considered "schmocks" by the CFGE (Comprehensive Fucking Grammar of English, Havard University Press, 2020, second edition).... and the child that says "I too" when asked by their friends: "who wants ice cream" is less likely to end up with ice cream... so "me too" is correct as proven by this empirical example. 
    LikeReplyReport 31 year ago
  • Brigitte Koren
    Ashley went to the pool... The bus dropped Tracy and me near the park.
    LikeReplyReport 12 years ago
  • Rauf Khan
    What about "let me b helped" and "let I be helped"?
    LikeReplyReport2 years ago
    • Max Klein
      Nope.... let is imperative mode and does therefore not require a subject. "me" in that example is the obligatory direct object of the transitive verb "let". By the way.... the "s" in "let's go" is also the direct object of "let". It's short for "us". All objects take object-case. 
      LikeReplyReport1 year ago
    • Max Klein
      P.S. "be helped" is the "object complement" which consits of a "bare infinitive clause" in passive voice. The word "me" hoever - or "I" in your less-than-correct example cannot be the subject of that clause because a subject would require the verb to be finite. (I am helped.) 
      LikeReplyReport1 year ago
  • Andrew Rausch
    Considering this is grammar.com, I think this sentence needs a few commas and/or some revision for clarity: "If you’re still not sure when to use me and you and you and me or and me or and I, here is a good trick that will help you remember." :) 
    LikeReplyReport 32 years ago

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